Living 1600 miles away from my family isn't easy. I had physical withdrawls for several months when we first moved away. You really understand how important family is when you move far away and things like just dropping in or calling someone up to go to lunch are no longer an option without lots of planning, an $800 plane ticket, and lots of time.
Paul and I have been here in Tennessee now for almost 7 years. I've really come to cherrish the few times we are able to go home. I try to enjoy every minute of my time with my family and friends and not take it for granted like I did when I was closer.
When Paul and I found out we were having a baby, I didn't expect much from anyone because I understand how expensive things can be and how much trouble it can be to send things. I wasn't expecting a baby shower at home either.
So a couple weeks ago when I walked out to my mailbox and found this, I was blown away:
It was totally unexpected and it was unbelievably touching so, of course, I bawled my head off right there at the mailbox. I called Amber to thank her and began the conversation crying in her ear, which gave her a heart attack - she thought something was terribly wrong (sorry about that Amb.)
Anyway, the shower was yesterday. I was able to call and speak with those who were able to make it the long way out to where my mom lives now. I just want to thank everyone who goes the extra mile to let Paul and know that even though we are far way, they still think of us and care about what is happening in our lives. I know how busy life can get and how difficult it can be to stay in touch - I know I have to be better about that. It just meant so much to us!!
I love you guys!!!
3 comments:
You are so welcome Edith. I love you and I love Paul too, but yes I have to admit, there is a big part of me that still wishes you guy's lived closer to us especially now that you're going to have a baby. I would have loved it if our kids could have grown up together. I hope me saying that doesn't hurt your feelings or make you cry that was not my intention. I just love you so much and miss you a lot that's all.
What an AWESOME family to think of a way to celebrate with you...even if they couldn't be there in person with you!!
Amb, I wish I was closer too. I really do. Who knows, maybe someday.
Kam, It WAS awesome. All of my family was there. They took pictures, made a video with everyone giving advice... Priceless, cherrished memories.
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